hi.selfish@gmail.com

Self+ISH

Monthly Archive: November 2017

I was that person seeking validation from other people

For  a long time I was that person seeking validation from other people. I used to define myself by the opinions of people I value and respect and I desperately sought their approval and validation. I looked to people to tell me who I am or what I am worth. I tried desperately to let them like me. Without the words or actions that I felt approved me, I automatically assumed that people disapproved of me and I immediately begin to question my actions and so I became  very insecure. I wanted to fit into their definition of who they think…
Read more

Enjoy this blog? Please spread the word :)