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Redefining Selfish

I was that person seeking validation from other people

For  a long time I was that person seeking validation from other people. I used to define myself by the opinions of people I value and respect and I desperately sought their approval and validation. I looked to people to tell me who I am or what I am worth. I tried desperately to let them like me. Without the words or actions that I felt approved me, I automatically assumed that people disapproved of me and I immediately begin to question my actions and so I became  very insecure. I wanted to fit into their definition of who they think…
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Value yourself, even in relationships

It’s been a while I posted anything here but I am going to do better from now. I was having a conversation with a close friend the other day we were talking about relationships generally and how people keep going back to old friendships that didn’t work for a reason, Ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends that are exs for a reason. I took away some lessons from the conversation and I thought to share with you. I hope you find them useful. 1. Some people don’t value you enough to put an effort into your relationship or friendship with them, stop putting…
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